Updated: Jul 23
Around here, we aren’t huge fans of New Year's resolutions - but we will make an exception for resolutions that prioritize your own pleasure. Looking to have the best sex of your life in 2020? Here are our top tips and tricks to achieve that goal.
Stop relying on someone else
You don’t need a partner to have the best sex of your life. That’s right - you can empower yourself with pleasure. Even if you have a partner, why rely on them? You’re strong and independent, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Enjoy pleasing yourself!
Try something new
Have you ever wondered if you can squirt? Curious about anal pleasure? It’s 2020 - time to try and experience. Trying new things alone takes the pressure off, and allows you to convey what you do and don’t like to your partner. Learn to ask for what you want, and get out of your comfort zone.
Have sex for fun, not for business
Just because you didn’t orgasm doesn’t mean you didn’t have sex. There shouldn’t be a goal or motive behind sex - just enjoy pleasure with no strings attached. It really takes the pressure off and allows you to explore different sensations of touch, and connect more with your body and your partner.
Use toys in the bedroom
Some people love a small, bullet sized vibrator. Others love strong pulsing vibrators! There are people that enjoy 12 inch dildos, and others that really just want external stimulation. Whatever your dream may be, it exists in the sex toy world. There is a product out there designed for you. Are you feeling shy about your fantasy? You can order pretty much anything online, and there’s no need to step foot in to a sex toy store, worried that someone may stop and talk to you.
Use birth control
Take the stress out of sex. Gone are the days of buying condoms in the drugstore, or Plan B late at night. Birth control can be ordered online, and delivered to your door. IUD’s make it easy to be worry free for years at a time, and condoms are available on Amazon Prime! One less worry makes the night that much more fun.
It doesn’t matter what others are doing
Not in to anal play, but all your friends are talking about it? Keep your booty a play free zone. Who cares what anyone else is doing? Your pleasure is your pleasure. If it feels good, go for it, and if it doesn’t feel good, don’t bother. There is no status quo with sex - you do it for you, and no one else.
No more fake orgasms
Too many women pretend to get off when nothing is really happening. Be honest with your partner about what makes you feel good. If they can’t handle it, move on to the next! You deserve to feel as good as they do. After all, sex is about mutual pleasure.
It’s 2020 ladies, and it’s time to take back your sex life!